If you and your partner are fans of chastity play, you probably figured out that just wearing the sex toy and obeying arbitrary rules loses the appeal after a while. However, some things can spice up the game and make it more fun for the chastity device wearer and the keyholder.
Adding extra excitement, such as the element of luck, works fantastically to increase the arousal and anticipation, and that’s what cock cages are all about. What will work for you is a matter of preference, and you will most likely try a couple of games before you find the one that makes you even hornier.
Set the Rules
Yes, it sounds boring since we wear cock cages for BDSM purposes, and that is about breaking the rules, but it has to be done. What’s important is to set the rules in advance, preferably write them down, and stick to them at all times.
This chastity contract will allow both parties to understand their roles and how far they can go. Both the keyholder and the caged partner must be comfortable with the contract, as well as the duties and responsibilities assigned to them.
BDSM is all about submission and control, so the set of rules might even add an aura of seriousness to the game. The master-slave relationship will become official, and both sides can step into their roles with ease.
Also, it’s a good way to ensure that there will be no ad hoc changes and deviations that can ruin the pleasure. The rules can be as outrageous as you wish, but they have to be followed. Safety is crucial, and you don’t want anyone to get carried away or suffer (more than they enjoy.)
Speaking of safety, make sure that you pick a safe word. It’s a code that will stop the game if either the caged man or the keyholder feels uncomfortable or threatened in any way. Couples who are into gagging should choose a safety sign so that the wearer can abort the action even when he is unable to speak. If you have not purchased your own chastity cage, you can buy a few items from lockthecock.ca’s male chastity belt range.
Male Chastity Games
Once you define the rules, the games can begin. As we said, the sky’s the limit when it comes to what you can do. However, the games should not be too elaborate, especially if the lock periods are longer. You need quick and simple tasks that you can incorporate into your daily routine. Of course, over the weekend, you can get into more demanding stuff.
We will guide you through some of the most popular games. Naturally, these are just ideas that you can alter and adjust to your needs and desires.
Hide and Seek
This is one of the classics that never loses its allure. The idea is to hide the key (or something else) and get the wearer to find it within a certain period of time. The search parameters can be anything from a single room to an entire neighborhood, although we would recommend a smaller area.
If the quest is successful, the slave can be free for a while and maybe get a juicier reward. If they don’t find the object, they can get extra time on their lock period or simply wait for another opportunity to play.
An important thing to remember with any game is that the chances of winning have to be realistic. Setting impossible goals ruins the motivation and actually makes the game dull.
Teasing While Wearing A Cock Cage
This is a good one. The keyholder teases the slave by stimulating him in various ways. The slave is strictly forbidden from having an orgasm, regardless of how explicit the stimulation gets.
You usually play this game during the unlock period, as it is more fun if the wearer can have a proper erection. An essential part of the game is that the slave must not come no matter how aroused he gets. It’s a practice of self-control.
If the wearer manages to control himself, he can get a reward. Anything from the reduction of the lock period to a proper orgasm is good.
If the slave happens to come, make sure the punishment is harsh. Additional cage time and spanking are excellent ways to demonstrate domination.
Luck of Draw
An element of luck adds unpredictability to the play and gives the wearer the impression that he has some control over the game. However, make sure that the odds are always in the master’s favor.
One of the ways to do it is with a simple set of marbles. Let’s say you put several blue and one red marble in a bag. The wearer can draw each day. If he takes one of the blues, the lockdown continues. If he takes the red one, he gets free time.
You can make the game more difficult by returning the blue marbles to the bag after the draw. If you are feeling compassionate, you can leave them out and increase the slave’s chances of getting a reward.
Playing dice or any other game of chance is also great, especially if you have a gambling streak. In that case, the game is double the fun.
Risk and Reward
In this one, you should give the slave a list of tasks or challenges that they must complete to receive a reward. It can be anything from simple errands to more complicated missions.
While it’s nice to have him do the housework, you might consider assigning him sexual duties, such as oral pleasure or dildo penetration. It just adds some extra kink, and he can combine compliance with self-discipline. If you have an orgasm, he can have one too. If he underperforms, the lock period continues.
This is a good time to discuss the reward/punishment ratio.
- In every game, there should be a reward as well as punishment. The reward keeps the slave eager to succeed, while the punishment keeps the power in the hands of the keyholder.
- The rewards must not be too scarce. If your slave is exposed to orgasm denial for too long, his interest in the game may start to diminish. In other words, if the lock periods are extensive, the wearer will develop tolerance, and that’s a turn-off.
Board Games
Yes, it sounds lame, but it can give the slave a chance to take the matter into his hands. Many masters do not like this shift of power, but it can be a nice break for both of you. You can play anything from Monopoly to Spin the Wheel.
What’s fun is that you can come up with a set of rewards and punishments to keep everything unpredictable. You can even buy some specialized board games from your local sex shop.
In the End
These are just basic ideas, and you can really get creative and come up with your own games. There’s just one thing that you should keep in mind: whatever you decide to play, the master always picks the reward and punishment because they need to maintain the authority.
